• STRONG ENOUGH

    March 30, 2011 - Comments (78)

     
    Well, it’s time. Time for a new song to hit the radio! Strong Enough is the new radio single from The Story of Your Life, and I thought I’d give you a little behind the scenes on what inspired this song and what it means to me.

     
    Strong Enough was inspired by a single mom from Indiana and her frustrated teenage daughter. Tonia had her first child when she was just 19 years old, and today she is just trying to give her three kids a better life than the one she has had. Her daughter Haleigh was beginning her dream of going to college in Chicago at Columbia University. But during a visit home for the holidays, Haleigh was in a near fatal car accident just one mile from her home. The accident sent her life spinning in a direction she hadn’t planned, and certainly never hoped for. Thirteen surgeries in three years, and Haleigh is still recovering. Her insurance was cancelled, and she could not go back to school because of her medical bills and continuing recovery.

     
    Tonia wrote to me while I was in the cabin about one night in the hospital while she was trying to comfort her daughter. She told her, “Haleigh, the Lord won’t let you go through anything He doesn’t think you are strong enough to handle.” Haleigh, who was beyond frustrated at that point responded honestly, “Oh yeah? Well, he must think I’m pretty FREAKIN’ STRONG!” Haleigh’s honest and human response to the adversity she was facing really impacted me. I had this picture in my head of this single mother and her devastated daughter standing at the foot of an impossible mountain, both saying, “This is bigger than me, I’m not strong enough.” Haleigh’s response to her mom inspired the first lines of the song.

     
    You must, you must think I’m strong
    To give me what I’m going through
    Well, forgive me, forgive me if I’m wrong
    But this looks like more than I can do
    On my own

     
    The song goes on to explore where our true source of strength comes from. My favorite verse from the bible holds the answer, and I sing it in the bridge of this song. Phillipians 4:13 is a verse my dad taught me when I was a kid. A verse I quoted many times in my life, whenever I have felt the way Haleigh has, facing my own impossible mountains in life. The bridge of the song proclaims,

     
    I can do all things
    Through Christ who gives me strength
    And I don’t have to be strong enough
    Strong enough

     
    One of the reasons I chose this song to be the next single at radio is because of the response it has during our live show on the The Story of Your Life Tour. Every single night, when we get to the part and start singing, I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO GIVES ME STRENGTH, hands begin to go up in the air all across the audience. It is as if people one by one are facing their own impossible mountains and soaking up that much needed reminder that we were never made to be strong enough to make it through life’s adversity on our own. We were made to be carried by the strength of a savior. I hope and pray this song will encourage you when your day finds you facing an impossible mountain. May you be comforted by the reminder that you’re not strong enough, and thank God you don’t have to be.

     
    -mw

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  • 78 comments

    1. 1. Theresa C commented:

      I bought The Story Of Your Life album on iTunes as soon as it was available. Many of the songs touched me deeply. Especially Broken, definitely the story of my life. This song, Strong Enough was also a very touching song. It reminded me of a story I had heard of a woman who was dealing with her elderly parent afflicted with Alzhimers. She sat down after a very stressful day and looked at her husband and said I just don’t think I can do this on my own. Her husband, who was a pastor, told her “YOU never could.” That touched me so deeply because it is during the most difficult times of our lives that we feel soooo alone and yet our Father, God, has CARRIED us through those times! Thank you so much for sharing this song and all the others with us!


    2. 2. Karen Hernke commented:

      Awesome song:) I have all your songs on my Ipod……you make my day:) God Bless You and your band. Everything you do is just amazing!!!


    3. 3. Jeff S commented:

      Music can speak in such a special way. It’s truly a gift from God. The story and the song are an inspiration.


    4. 4. mikayla williams commented:

      this is wht i am goin through i can relate to this song


    5. 5. Susan Cline commented:

      Matthew –

      I’m glad this is your next radio single. This song is my favorite and I especially like the part when it comes to Phillipians 4:13 – it’s such a powerful bridge and I’ve shared this song with many people, who are all touched by it. For me, it’s helped me grieve through the loss of my Mom, and for that, I am grateful.

      Your favorite Michigan friend, Susan


    6. 6. Natalie Cooley commented:

      I bought the “Story of Your Life” CD at a concert in Lima last week, I had planned to ask God who I should give it to, but as it turned out I was the one who needed it. God is awesome how he just meets us where we are! I am a college student and I often get told that I am strong, because I hold onto my faith even when the world tells me to throw it away. People go so far as to say that if they didn’t know me they would think I’m on drugs. My positive attitude shines; it is all because of Jesus! They would never guess the young girl I was before Him. It is encouraging to know that I didn’t have to be strong enough because He is! It is not by my might or power but it is all through God’s grace. Thank you, Matthew West, for writing from the heart.


    7. 7. Brenda commented:

      Awesome testimony and an awesome song to explain it…. It blessed me to my soul’s core…


    8. 8. Chris Ronan commented:

      I bought The Story of Your Life knowing that it was inspired by peoples stories and I put it in the CD player and started listening. After a couple of times through I decided to read the liner notes and the stories behind the songs and it changed the album for me. Then I saw the Story of your life tour in February and I can honestly say that that show changed this album and my life. That night it was like you and I were in a room alone together and you were helping me through the story of my life. I love this song and look forward to hearing it on the radio. Thanks and God Bless


    9. 9. Connie commented:

      Awesome!!!!! Love it!


    10. 10. Stefani commented:

      What a great story…..when I first heard your song it brought back so many emotions and memories….
      After giving birth to my son….and learning that ‘my’ expectation isn’t always what God’s plan is…..this song continues to speak to me and remind me of an important lesson that I am STILL learning and growing through.

      My son, Will was diagnosed with an immune deficiency on December 28th, 2004. On December 31st, 2004, I found out that I was pregnant with my daughter Sasha. When she was born, I had hopes that she would not face the same struggles that Will had endured….sadly, her struggles began right at birth. She spent 28 of the first 40 days of her life in and out of the NICU’s in Boston. Sadly, the time would come in which it was confirmed that she too had the same immune deficiency that her brother had, but hers was more severe and required weekly infusions of blood product pooled from thousands of donors. We thought that was the end of our journey of ‘the unknown’ – turns out, God still had other plans. Sasha began having periods of unresponsiveness and what appeared to be stroke-like episodes. It was a never ending roller coaster ride with her as even the Boston doctors couldn’t figure out what was wrong and ended up sending us to Georgia, UCLA, and Pittsburgh to see various specialists. At the same time, Will’s health began to decline and it was decided that he too would need the weekly infusions (which we still do to this day). All the while, my own health began to fail and we began the long process of weeding out what was going on with me. I was soon to discover that life was going to take another unexpected turn. I was diagnosed with Mitochondrial Disease (a progressive neuromuscular disease) last year….all the while still dealing with the many medical issues that both.
      There were times that I just couldn’t seem to grasp or fully embrace that with all this suffering, God had a plan. It took my son (who is now 7) coming to me one night when he was very sick to realize what God was trying to tell me all along. Through tears of desperation, Will begged me to tell God to ‘make him not sick anymore’ and sobbed that he wanted me to tell God that he didn’t want to be “Broken” anymore. It truly broke my heart to have NO control over what was going on with either child. I sat back for a moment and prayed to find the right words to tell him. I replied, ‘Will, we are ALL ‘broken’ in our own way….and it’s through our ‘brokenness’ that God uses us to do great things in the lives of others.”
      He paused for a moment….asked me how I was broken…and I replied that my body didn’t work some days (which was something he sees often and could understand). I told him that because of his and his sister’s brokenness – that we held blood drives in our town and have brought in over a thousand pints of blood….that because of their brokenness, people who never knew about immune deficiencies or all the uses for blood not only learned about it but got a chance to meet the both of them at the blood drives and hear how those blood donations have saved them….and because of that…..people came back….again and again…..and lives were changed….because of their brokenness.
      He thought for a moment….wiped his tears away….and he said, “Okay….well, if that’s the way it is”……..and smiled and hugged me.
      It was at that moment that I realized that God knew EXACTLY what he was doing with us in our lives….that our struggles and suffering had purpose and meaning and that we could DO something really incredible through that….and we have made it our mission to make a difference.
      Honestly, as parents, we were terrified (and sometimes still are)…and yes, we were broken….but not without Hope.
      I finally realized that God was wise enough to make me weak enough to realize that only HE was strong enough to carry me through.
      Thank you for your ministry….for your music….for your reminders that always seem to reach out and grab me at just the right moment….
      Stefani


    11. 11. Karen K commented:

      It’s amazing how God uses the gift He gave to you! Thanks for sharing this gift with us! Awesome song! =}


    12. 12. Holly S. commented:

      I love all your songs. It is true, God has given you a gift. You have touched many lives through your music. I love this new song Strong Enough. I think it will help people remember that God loves them and he is their strength and he will help them through anything. Thank you for your music.


    13. 13. Brenda Jones commented:

      I heard this song for the first time today. It really spoke to my spirit. This last year has been very difficult for my family and me. Marital problems, my son died unexpectedly, and my father died 5 months later. This caused problems with my work, because of all the time I needed to be off. Not to mention the financial hardships. But, I am at a place where I can thank God for taking my son and dad and not let them suffer anymore. There were definitely times that I did not think I was strong enough, that God had forsaken me. When people tell you that “If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it” I can see the truth in that now, but not in the midst of the storm. He has strenthened me, and my family. May God bless you in your ministry, for your obedience and sacrifice. You allow Him to touch lives through you. Thank you.


    14. 14. Nancy commented:

      thank you
      thank you
      thank you


    15. 15. Jessica Leach commented:

      I bought this album on iTunes the day it came out and loved it from the first time I played it. Each song touches me in a different way, but Strong Enough has had the biggest impact! I’m really struggling with so many things right now… from work to school and so on. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve wanted to just give up… just go in my room, curl up in a ball and stay there! That’s when I love listening to this song. It reminds me that there is Someone I can turn to, Someone who will carry me and be my Rock, my fortress & my strength! Thanks to Tonia and Haleigh for sharing their story, to Matthew for writing this amazing song, and to God who made it ALL possible!


    16. 16. Dale Nacinovich commented:

      This is a great song. The scripture “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” is my husband David’s favorite scripture. This scripture was especially lived out through his life when he had a heart attack and 5 bypass heart surgery in August 2002.
      We saw you in Thomasville, GA just a couple of weeks ago and this really ministered. Thank you Matthew for your awesome gifting.
      Be Blessed, Dale and David Nacinovich, Thomasville, GA


    17. 17. Amy Van Der Brink commented:

      I had an awesome time at the concert in Sioux Center, Iowa. Not Sioux City, not Sioux Falls ….well you know how the rest goes. Yes, it’s true you never get used to it either.
      But as for the song “Strong Enough” first of all I think I have heard on one radio station already but I’m not sure now if I did or if it was because I had your CD playing. But the song reminds me I don’t need to be “Strong Enough” even when I feel I can’t there is someone there who is & will. I also love how you have Phillipians 4:13 in the song. It’s a great Bible verse and I think put scripture to music or a song is good way to help memorize as well.

      BTW my sister-in-law used Phillipians 4:13 to help her quit smoking.


    18. 18. Sharon Ferrer commented:

      God gives you the wisdom to answer in His perfect timing of when what song needs to be released. Our community and youth group mourns today of a 9th grader who lost his life yesterday in a car accident where his sister was driving the car…and she was not at fault. I will be sure the family gets a copy of this CD, specifically for this song; as I know it will in some way, minister to the family. We serve an Awesome Savior! Frank and Sharon


    19. 19. PASTOR RUBEN BAJO commented:

      IM PASTOR AND TRUCKER (JESUS CHRIST IS LORD) RIGS. FEEDING THE NEEDY BY THE 1,000′S IN USA AND IN HATI AND MEXICO, TRYING GET 2 JAPAN, HAULING FOOD AND SUPPLY 2 SHIPS. GLORY !! I LOVE YOUR SONGS
      KEEPING U AND FAMILY IN OUR PRAYER, I’M A EX-PRO FIGHTER 2, KEEP ON FIGHTING THE DEVIL AND WE WIN IN THE END OF THE BIBLE. AMEN


    20. 20. Diane C commented:

      Wow…. what an amazing concert in Waukesha, WI last friday. First time I ever heard this song and it touched my heart. As did all the songs I heard that evening. I went out Saturday and bought the CD and cannot stop listening to it. Its very inspirational and gets me though some very challenging work days. I’m sending a copy of the CD to my daughter in AZ to give her strength and encouragement. Thanks Matthew.


    21. 21. pam commented:

      Awsome song, nice to see what inspired the song!


    22. 22. Elena Lindfield Seager commented:

      Matt, thank you AGAIN for sharing your gift of song writing. We all think our own circumstances are too tough to cope with at times but it is so good to be reminded that while our circumstances ARE tough, that because we have God in our lives we will have HIS strength to help us through to the ending he desires for us. Thanks also to Tonia & Haleigh for being vulnerable. It is in us being vulnerable that we give others permission to be as well and the Community of God can reach out and help each other. Bless you Matt for your music ministry. EVERY one of your songs speaks to my heart and soul. Keep on keeping your eyes focussed on Him.
      Hey, will you ever come and do concerts in Australia???? Plllleeeaaaassseeeeeeee…….


    23. 23. brotherjoeradosti commented:

      To all those who are in the midst of the valley of the shadow of death, don’t give up. Remember Christ went before you and has promised never to leave you nor forsake you. My grace is sufficient for you. For my strength is made perfect in weakness 2Cor.10:9. Thanks Matthew.


    24. 24. brotherjoeradosti commented:

      Sorry that is 2 Cor. 12:9.


    25. 25. Lori commented:

      Thanks for writing this song! It is truly my theme song.I have a daughter with bi-polar disorder and a son with autism who also has several health issues as well.I can’t tell you how many times I have went and sat in my car and listened to this song. Your music is a gift from God and I am so thankful that you have chosen to share it with the world! EVERY song on this record touched a part so deep in my soul. God bless you Matthew and please for the sake of my sanity please don’t ever stop making music! Love the video too!!


    26. 26. Bob Munion commented:

      Matthew; my family and I got to see you in person at Golden Hills Church in Brentwood. The songs were personally moving and the stories that accompanied them were special in every way. If they don’t bring an individual closer to God, maybe nothing will. The two songs that hit home for me was Me and Survivor. As a cancer survivor who was given from 6-18 months to live on May 20, 2009 I am still here. God has been in my life more since that day than my previous 68 years combined..(70 this June) Me was very special as it could have ben the story of my grandson’s life. His sruggles with academia continue daily and he is now 20. We pray daily that he will find success in life. Thank you for the stories and inspiration.


    27. 27. Leslie Ebersold commented:

      Matthew, by far my favorite song from the cd. It says it all. When my high school math students are working on their in-class problems, I typically have your cd on. It’s fun to watch their heads bob to this song especially. My son, Jack, had to write an autobiography and he titled it Philippians 4:13, so this song is particularly special. Thanks for giving me tools to spread the Kingdom with my students.


    28. 28. Jenifer commented:

      Great song!! I can relate to this “message”, as I’m sure many people do and will. My 15 year old son Joshua died tragically 3 years ago on 12/8/2007. Some days that “mountain” seems just too hard to climb…..but then my faith returns and I can climb another step.
      Thank you for ALL that you do. Your message does reach many…..God Bless YOU……


    29. 29. mildred commented:

      I am encouraged, thank you and God bless


    30. 30. Tami commented:

      Matthew, I am so glad to hear this is the next release. My favorite on this album!! We saw you in Kohler this past week and the experience was so inspiring. I was so overwhelmed by the encouragement and all I could say was “thank you for what you do” but what I really wanted to say was: Your music and concerts have been such a blessing to our family. Please keep it up. Thank you for your family’s sacrifice to allow you to be on the road to minister to others. It is definitely apparent that you are allowing God to work through you. I am constantly pointing my friends and family to certain songs on your new cd when they are facing something. My daughter’s theme song for our past mission trip was “My Own Little World” and now she told me she is going to have her theme song be “One Less” when she opens her home for children in another country some day (she is only 12 now) : ) I could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Thanks again may God bless you, your band and your family.
      P.S. We love when the kids are on the end of the cd. When we first got this past cd my son was so excited to listen for Lulu.


    31. 31. Sarah commented:

      I LOVE this song. it’s my favorite on your new cd. I listen to it over and over and over again. So glad it’s going on the radio so more people can hear it! :)


    32. 32. Hannah commented:

      This song as had quite an impact on me.I got the CD and this song has and still helps me through my struggle with depression i have been facing for about 4 mounths.Thank you for everything you do..


    33. 33. Viktor commented:

      Hey, Matthew, I have your album Something to Say. It’s so cool; it seems that everything you say there is so sincere and something I can relate to. Just totally love your songs–they can be listened to on a bad day, but also on a calm Saturday afternoon. Every time the song My Own Little World comes up on the radio it’s quite inspiring. Thanks a bunch for your music. God bless you and your family.
      Viktor


    34. 34. Lauren Dennis commented:

      This song touch a part of me that doesn’t get touched to often. And ecspecially not that fast. The moment the words of the song started I want to cry because those lines are exactly what God has been teaching me.


    35. 35. matthew commented:

      Thanks Lauren, that is so awesome. I’m always amazed how God can use so many different things to speak to us, and how he uses our adversity to turn our eyes towards him. be strong-mw


    36. 36. matthew commented:

      thanks Viktor! means so much to have your support. Thanks for listening! -mw


    37. 37. matthew commented:

      Hannah- Thank you so much for writing! I am so glad the song has helped to encourage you. I am sorry to hear that you have been battling with depression. I know that is something that can get a grip on you so tight, and make it hard to see the hope we have in this life. But I hope today and everyday you can be reminded that God is our hope, and our strength. Be strong-mw


    38. 38. matthew commented:

      Awesome! Thanks Sarah! I’m so glad it’s your favorite! be sure to call and request it on the radio so they will play it!


    39. 39. matthew commented:

      Thanks so much Tami! Your encouragement means so much! I’m glad you were able to see the tour when we came to WI, and hope to see you all again soon. Thanks for making my music part of your family, and I hope to see you again soon-mw


    40. 40. matthew commented:

      Jenifer, Thanks for writing to me. I am sorry for the loss of your son. As a parent, I cannot even begin to imagine how difficult your journey has been. If you have the Story of Your Life CD, please take a moment to listen to the song, “The Reason for the World.” It was inspired by another family who lost their son at age 18 in a car accident. I just thought maybe it could encourage you. -mw


    41. 41. matthew commented:

      That’s awesome Leslie! Thanks for playing my music to your class. It’s so cool to see how God works, and he is using you in the lives of those young people in a big way!


    42. 42. matthew commented:

      Thanks Lori! Theme song, I like it! Sounds like your family has had its struggles, and I know being a parent is hard enough. But I love the promise that God will be our strength to make it through all of our struggles. Blessings to you-mw


    43. 43. matthew commented:

      Thanks Elena! Good word from you. I heard it said once that if everyone were to put their problems on a pile and you saw everyone else’s problems, you’d gladly take yours back! It is true, we all face those impossible mountains. Glad you like the song! thanks for listening-mw


    44. 44. matthew commented:

      Hey Sharon, so sorry to hear about that tragedy. will be praying for that family-mw


    45. 45. matthew commented:

      Thanks Ruben! Be strong!


    46. 46. Dean Rhymes commented:

      If this album was on vinyl I promise you it would be completely worn out by now :)
      To be honest any and every track off this album is a great single to me, Still “Strong Enough” really gives the message alot of people around the world need to hear right now. Please don’t forget to let me know if you make it to the UK this year. Thanks Matthew.


    47. 47. Tami Carlson-Scamehorn commented:

      Thank you Matt for coming to Kearney, NE tonight! I have been volunteering at our local Hospital and writing down the older generations stories to be passed down, but I wasn’t quite sure what God was calling me to do with their stories. I have always felt God calling me to be an author however, I let too many people ruin my dreams. I lost confidence, sunk deep into anorexia, have had several health problems as a result, although, I completed a treatment program and have recently returned and feel God reigniting my passion for writing. Through your concert tonight, I realize that there are many stories left to be told and Praise God He works through all His people! May God bless you and yours~


    48. 48. Lonna commented:

      This is by far one of the best songs i have ever heard, it kind of relates to me in a way, about 4 years ago we lost my little 2 year old sister to an accident, we had never imagined that this would happen. But God has gotten me through this,and is still continuing to get me through this, its still hard but I know she is in heaven now!thanks for this inspiring song!(:


    49. 49. Sabrina commented:

      This song has brought so much strength to me & my family. Sometimes the day to day grind just wears you down. My husband is working 2 full-time jobs right, I’m working part-time, and we are trying to raise our twin daughters, but struggling finacially everyday. Everyday is a struggle. When you came to Paducah, KY and sang this song, I knew GOD was speaking to me, through your song. I bought the cd, and took it home to my husband, we spent the rest of the night listening and praising Jesus. Thank you so much for your music & your ministry. And we now know that we don’t have to be “Strong Enough” :-) God Bless!


    50. 50. kami commented:

      Heard this song for the first time when I was drivng to work. I had been experiencing alot of pain associated with multiple sclerosis, and this song ministered to me in a mighty way. Thank you. I know God did not ‘give me’ multiple sclerosis, and He is strong enough for both of us…even when my legs and the rest of my body don’t seem to be. I am strong in HIM! Blessings to you!


    51. 51. aaron commented:

      I know you have probably have heard this so many times but saying that i’m your biggest fan would be an understatement. All my life i have listened to your music and it moves me more and more with each and every album you release. So i have to say thank you. You inspire me to be a better christian and inspire me through music also. Thank you and i hope to see you in concert someday.


    52. 52. Justin Wood commented:

      Matthew, this is a great song. God really does work in mysterious ways. My sister was killed in a car accident on her way to school on February 11, 2011. My dad was first on scene as a police officer and I was shortly thereafter as a member of the fire department. My sister’s favorite verse was Phillipians 4:13 so that was the verse for the funeral sermon. It is amazing how life has changed since than. This verse has been a great blessing to reflect on and refer to to keep moving forward in life. I heard this song one day driving to work and it just sunk in. God really knew what we needed to hear in life and this song was it. It immediately became a favorite song. My sister was a big fan of yours and her boyfriend had plans to take her to your concert in Sioux Center, Iowa. So this has all taken place for a reason and through Christ’s strength we can keep moving forward.


    53. 53. Jock commented:

      Tkhnas for the insight. It brings light into the dark!


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